Cardia
Counseling Center specializes in integrating healing prayer into a traditional
counseling model. What is “healing prayer”? Essentially,
it is a process of utilizing traditional Christian prayer to address
psychological wounds within the soul.
How
is our therapy different from a traditional counseling session?
At Cardia, we are dedicated to discerning what therapy can heal and
what only God can heal. We use traditional therapy to help people understand
their history, wounds, and how it has affected the way they relate to
others today. But each therapist is always listening for those moments
where leading a person into the presence of the Lord will bring a deeper
and more complete healing.
The
main focus of healing prayer is to facilitate the client’s ability
to enter into God’s healing presence. The counselor acts as a
teacher and facilitator, guiding the client to hear God’s voice,
in order to address the issues that prevent the client from experiencing
meaningful and intimate relationships.
The
Therapist’s Role:
Every therapist is aware of those precious “holy moments”
where a client is in position to experience deep healing. At some point
in their professional development, a therapist begins to recognize this
and shape the counseling session to lead a person to this time and place.
Every Christian therapist must consider the following: are these “holy
moments” in a therapeutic sense only, or is the presence of the
Holy Spirit urging us to do more? At Cardia, we are interested in cultivating
not only our therapeutic intuition but using that same capacity to listen
to the Lord in our sessions.
How
this model was developed.
As a young therapist, I saw how traditional therapy was very good at
diagnosing what exactly was wrong in broken relationships and what experiences
lead to dysfunctional behavior. I did notice, however, that profound,
deep, and lasting healing was more elusive. During my early years as
a therapist, I was fortunate to experience (through observation, study,
and receiving) healing prayer through a local church that sponsored
an extensive healing care/healing prayer program. I slowly began to
integrate forms of healing care/healing prayer, based upon Christian
theology, into my counseling practice. As I did so, I found clients
receiving a deeper and more profound healing as well as release from
dysfunctional patterns and feelings. Clients seem to move from a place
of maintaining health by means of constant vigilance and awareness (white-knuckling
it) to a place of staying healthy by receiving God’s healing presence
through the modes of listening prayer and traditional counseling.
The
“How To” of Healing Prayer:
At Cardia, a part of our mission is to assist the many gifted and highly
skilled clinicians to bridge the gap between psychology and practical
theology. In effect, to lead clients to that healing that only Jesus
can provide.
A
clinician who wishes to learn about and integrate the powerful healing
this model provides must learn to listen to the words the Lord wants
to whisper to them and to their client’s heart. Through consultation,
training and supervision, special care is given to cultivating the therapists’
own ability to listen. Additionally, we give practical instruction on
the when, where and how of integrating prayer into the counseling session.
This includes application to issues such as same-sex attraction, gender
identity, codependency, addictions, anxiety and depression.
Prayer
as a Therapeutic Tool:
Recently, utilizing prayer in treatment has been the focus of clinical
discussion and research. We recommend the following to you for additional
information.
Archibald D. Hart Ph.D., former Dean of the Graduate School of Psychology
at Fuller Theological Seminary asserts that “Christian counseling
is only ‘Christian’ to the extent that it collaborates with
God in the healing process.” (Christian Counseling Today, 2003
Vol. 11 No.4)
Siang-Yang
Tan Ph.D., professor of Psychology at the Graduate School of Psychology,
Fuller Theological Seminary and senior pastor of First Evangelical Church,
Glendale, CA, calls Inner Healing Prayer a “distinctively Christian
intervention and specific example of prayer as a spiritual and religious
resource that can be used in counseling or psychotherapy in explicit
integration.” (Christian Counseling Today, 2003 Vol. 11 No.4)
Terry
Wardle, professor of Church Planting and Spiritual Formation at Ashland
Theological Seminary states that we must know when “horizontal
conversation must surrender to the vertical.” He further states
that “It is the responsibility of the caregiver to instruct people
regarding how and when to make this shift (into prayer). At this point
the caregiver is there to help position the person to actually speak
to the Lord, experience his love, and receive his healing touch.”
(Healing Care, Healing Prayer, New Leaf Books, 2001).